Have you heard the saying (I’m paraphrasing here) that we
are too busy chasing happy to realize we are already happy?
I don’t want to live
my life chasing happy. I want to recognize every day that I already am.
Sometimes I get so focused on the end goal that I overlook
the adventure of getting there.
I don’t want to get
that laser focus, tunnel vision on my goals and forget about how much fun and
how much awesome is happening while I am working on getting there.
And I admit, that I can sometimes (more than I would like to
admit) get caught up in how other people are living their life, their fitness
game, their end results.
I don’t want to waste
my days ‘Keeping Up with the Jones’. I don’t. I want to be enough. I want to be
OK.
Guess what?
I already am.
Actually, I am pretty fucking awesome.
So why is it so hard to recognize this? Or better yet, why
is it so easy to forget this? Oh so many reasons.
But mainly it boils down to this. I am surrounded by
awesome. So. Much. Awesome.
My friends and family are out there kicking ass- running
marathons, having babies, becoming doctors. You name it. Each and every person
I know is just killing it at life. And sometimes it makes me want to do all the
things and be just like them. Could you blame me? I may be awesome but they are
so much awesomer so I need to do better, be better, be more awesome, right????
NO! Not right!
I am awesome at being Dacia. I have got Dacia down pat. I
can be a more awesome Dacia but only by improving and adjusting and tweaking
the current Dacia….NOT BY TRYING TO MIMIC SOMEONE ELSE.
And that- that right there ^^^ is what I need to remember. I can
be a better me, but only by being better at being me.
Today I write this as a reminder to myself.
I AM HAPPY
there is nothing for me to chase
MY PATH IS WHAT
DEFINES ME AND BRINGS ME JOY
not the destination
BEING ME IS ENOUGH.
IT IS OK. IT IS AWESOME. I AM AWESOME.
and you are too!
What is something you need to remind yourself of today?
Love and hugs,
Dacia
xoxoxoxo
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